Ive already decided i like her before even i know her.
There is this part of the brain that models people. When i talk to you, i first talk to the model, predict what you would say/react. im comforted if you do what i expect you to, a little surprised if you do "deviate".
All was well till i started to think how i formed the models in the first place. its almost full size 10 minutes after you meet someone, or even worse you hear about someone. after thats is a matter of correcting it, but its very difficult to. for one, 90% of the first version is based on the person's background. it takes ~3 years to reduce that to 40%. only way to accelerate this : talk! say stories.
This one person : i hardly know about her. and a funny thing happened, people even tell my modeling on background is way off. but i like her, logic completely falls thro
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I love this post. when we meet a stranger, much of their person, their spirit and heart is filled in by our own imaginations and desires - we "fill in the blanks" so to speak. unless reality intertwines and slowly replaces what we dreamt up. and at times you fall for the highest potential of a person, what we think they are or could/should be, rather than with the person itself. strange little world.
Nice post.thank you so much for share.
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