Ive already decided i like her before even i know her.
There is this part of the brain that models people. When i talk to you, i first talk to the model, predict what you would say/react. im comforted if you do what i expect you to, a little surprised if you do "deviate".
All was well till i started to think how i formed the models in the first place. its almost full size 10 minutes after you meet someone, or even worse you hear about someone. after thats is a matter of correcting it, but its very difficult to. for one, 90% of the first version is based on the person's background. it takes ~3 years to reduce that to 40%. only way to accelerate this : talk! say stories.
This one person : i hardly know about her. and a funny thing happened, people even tell my modeling on background is way off. but i like her, logic completely falls thro
