Thursday, April 20, 2006

Why the US mappilai?

Dormant for a long time. been quite busy...

Why the US? well, 1 friend of mine says, only then he will get a good wife. unfortunately thats true! whats happening around? Arranged marriage a long misunderstood fact, combined with ignorance it is.

What exactly was arranged marriage? 3 generations ago, this is what it meant... parents of the figure and maplai knew each other for 14 years before the marriage happened (99% relatives)and the 2 kids were tuned to each other, no doubt all of it worked. but now "21 yearsku what is right what is wrongnu advice pannavangalukku 21 yearla whos rightnu theriyum" what ultimate crap! till 21 you cannot decide, when you can, you dont! the present stage : 2 idiots meet, tune unto each other (this is exactly what arranged marriage aimed at earlier!!!) and tell their parents and by default they are supposed to say No, cause then they have lost their job.

Now why the US? one of my friends who is going to get married put it right: my mom wants me to live in a place with a better "quality of living" than the present. perfect agreed... but no mom looks for a maplai in Honolulu, the highest ranked city in the US (25th!). I live in Germany now, know what exactly quality of living means, given that Munich is ranked 7th overall... and 3 cities of the top 10 are in Germany, i know what exactly it means... so why still the US? IGNORANCE! http://www.finfacts.com/qualityoflife.htm

well lets stop the argument here ie., till we get any replies!

Kana has quoted this blog in the latest edition of sandpaper @ http://www.bitsaa.org/sandpaperspring2006/pdf/Sandpaper%20Spring%202006.pdf Copywrite violation, will settle accounts with him when i get back to Bangalore.

4 comments:

Harini said...

you have violated the first rule of probability statistics by having a biased sample set. go for the wider world raghu. our generation has more credibility than you acknowledge them to have.

raghuram said...

@H:

I have a "suitable" sample set maam. our generation has more credibility : true, but they dont use it. Tambrams are still 2 generations behind cause thats where the controls come from.

Harini said...

true very true... controls come from far behind but exercising them blindly has taken a back seat... i am saying this from experience raghu... believe me..

raghuram said...

yeah i can see India changing, but it will take another 25 years to start using own brains.